When life throws you a curveball….

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

LAST Saturday morning I planned to drop my daughter to dance for two hours and return home to do some housework. We jumped into our car, I turned the key to discover the battery was dead – great timing! I sat for a moment and wondered what to do. My husband was in London at a meeting with the other car, my sister in-law was unavailable and my son was groggy with a flu virus. My daughter also missed dance the week before and needed to catch up with the dance routine.

I decided to order a taxi, drop my daughter to dance and wait for 1.5 hours. I was annoyed because A. I would be £15 out of pocket, B. I now needed to make myself presentable – usually I ‘drop and run’ so no need for any make up or matching clothes, C. A load of washing was in the machine waiting to be hung out.

As I sat typing this while my son sniffed and sneezed next to me, I realised that not everything will go according to plan. Life will throw you curveballs but we cannot afford to be beaten by them. As much as we plan, we need to work with an element of flexibility. If one is too rigid you leave yourself open to much disappointment.

I lived a life of rigidity and it was limiting and exhausting. I was constantly picking myself up from disappointment after disappointment. Whether my train was delayed or an appointment/event was cancelled, it left me feeling out of control.

Having control is learning to rise above circumstances which come to try you and throw your plans right out of the window. Having control is accepting we do not travel through life along one straight, neat road paved with flowers. The road bends and turns, moves up and down and can be ugly. In between those twists and turns we can choose to laugh and relish the good times. If we look closely, they are there!

8 thoughts on “When life throws you a curveball….”

  1. I understand what you’re saying. I always think: Well, this is supposed to work THIS way and when it doesn’t, I wig out. Utter waste of time! But it is a big relief to learn what we can and cannot control in life. There isn’t any point in stressing about the things out of our control. Like the planned power outage tomorrow for some electrical work in the neighborhood. I could whine, but should probably just plan on going to the library–not as if that’s suffering!

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  2. So true. Easier said than done but we need to expect the unexpected.

    Life isn’t fair at times but we can learn to be flexible.

    Similarly this happened to me last year and I had to go without a car for a while. Thanks for the reminder.

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