Live life to the full!







Years ago I would shake my head at sayings such as;

“Dance as if nobody is looking”
“Laugh as if it will be your last”
“Do not forget to stop and smell the roses”

I guess I was a bit of a cynic, well so my mother said. I found sayings a little ‘wet behind the ears’ and too try hard.
I did not realise life really is short and generally took myself far too seriously. At times we can get caught up with what we desire, what do not yet have, what is coming next that we forget to enjoy the here and now.

The other day I spotted a beautiful robin in my back garden and took a photograph of it. The robin looked carefree whilst perched on my garden wall then it flew off never to be seen again. I enjoy peering through my kitchen window at my tree, the birds and the cats that visit. I enjoy watering the flowers in my garden and watching them bloom. I smile as I sprinkle water over the flowers whilst trying to convince myself I am ‘green fingered’. I really am not but I do like a pretty garden.  I enjoy teasing my children and husband; we dance, sing and make jokes – our house is full of much laughter. Simple but pleasurable pass times.

We are not given the chance to go back and relive moments of our lives that we were too miserable, distracted and discontent to enjoy. They just become missed opportunities. Our families; immediate and extended grow up, move away and pass away. As do our friends. It is therefore important we cherish them today.

Life will never be perfect, not everything will go as planned. However there will always be hope. There will always be elements of joy and laughter that we can grab hold of.

I am of the mindset that if you want to place blue highlights in your hair, go ahead and do it. You can always re-colour if it does not grow on you. Wear those pretty heels to take photographs in at home knowing they are far too high to ever consider leaving the house in.

How do you ensure you remain in the present?
Was there a pivotal moment in your life in which you made this choice?

12 thoughts on “Live life to the full!”

  1. I find it much easier to enjoy moments these days than when I worked in travel. I was always running, running, rarely taking the time to enjoy my surroundings. In fact, it was often dark when I arrived and dark when I left work! Then one day I took a client out to for an inspection of the hotel grounds and the panorama in front of us of the gardens, the beach and ocean, and nearby Lanai Island, it just took my breath away. I suddenly realized all I was missing by being chained to a desk every day. It’s always good to have reminders! Thanks for the inspiration Phoenicia.


    1. I have felt as though I am running from one thing to another with little time to take in my surroundings. By nature I am a doer so I need to make a conscious effort to enjoy the moment.


  2. Like “still the lucky few,” I celebrated my birthday this week. My husband was out of town, but my younger sister came to stay for two nights. We spent every moment enjoying the moments–it was delightful. I don’t want to re-live those bad times in life, like you I want to celebrate all the wonderful times we’re given in life!


  3. Great post, Phoenicia. I definitely live every moment and day as though it might be my last. Living in the moment and enjoying every day to the fullest have been integral to my happiness. I think I adopted that attitude the day my mother died at the young age of 55.


  4. Your blog came at an opportune time—I had birthday celebration this past weekend. Most of my family were here, and everyone participated in the fun. It was fabulous, and I felt well and truly ‘feted’! But today I seem to be suffering withdrawal, wishing it could have gone on longer! So I’m trying to live in the present, and accept that joy comes and goes, and nothing is forever! Thanks, Phoenicia, for a very thoughtful post!

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